{"id":1676,"date":"2017-09-02T16:26:11","date_gmt":"2017-09-02T21:26:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/designyoursuccess.com\/?p=1676"},"modified":"2017-09-02T16:28:42","modified_gmt":"2017-09-02T21:28:42","slug":"achieving-goals","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging-ucs.com\/tina\/achieving-goals\/","title":{"rendered":"Achieving Goals &#8211; &#8220;It&#8217;s My Turn To&#8230;&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/designyoursuccess.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/bigstock-Business-Woman-Celebrating-Suc-75833953-1024x684.jpg\" alt=\"Woman celebrating achieving goals\" width=\"735\" height=\"491\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-1678 \" srcset=\"https:\/\/staging-ucs.com\/tina\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/bigstock-Business-Woman-Celebrating-Suc-75833953-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/staging-ucs.com\/tina\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/bigstock-Business-Woman-Celebrating-Suc-75833953-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/staging-ucs.com\/tina\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/bigstock-Business-Woman-Celebrating-Suc-75833953-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/staging-ucs.com\/tina\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/bigstock-Business-Woman-Celebrating-Suc-75833953-1080x721.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #5f97a5;\"><strong>WHAT IF YOU FINISHED THIS SENTENCE: <\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #5f97a5;\"><strong><em>IT&#8217;S MY TURN TO&#8230;<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h5 style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>and you really started to achieve your goals?<\/strong><\/span><\/h5>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>Achieving goals can feel elusive, <\/strong>particularly if they feel really personal to you<strong>. <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>What would it feel like for you to complete this statement &#8211; <em>It&#8217;s My Turn To&#8230;<\/em>?<\/strong> \u00a0You should feel great!\u00a0It should feel like it is<strong> aligned with what you truly want<\/strong>.\u00a0Your brain should feel like you are in a zone of positivity. <strong>Achieving goals<\/strong> that are meaningful to you can make you light up.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"color: #e09f8d;\"><strong>WHAT WILL IT TAKE FOR YOU TO SAY &#8220;ENOUGH IS ENOUGH&#8221;<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>First, seek to understand what keeps you from taking inspired action. What keeps you from achieving goals and the one thing that you should finally pursue?<\/strong> Do you have a lot of <strong>head trash<\/strong> that gets in the way? If you do, <strong>when will you say &#8220;enough is enough&#8221;<\/strong>? Isn&#8217;t this your day, your month, your year? <strong>Aren&#8217;t you tired of putting yourself last?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">You think you&#8217;re not treating yourself this way. You think you are doing everything you can to satisfy your most important needs and wants. Think again! <strong>Are you moving through life maybe not as boldly as you would like?<\/strong> Maybe you are <strong>showing up strongly in one area of your life, while the others are languishing<\/strong>. It&#8217;s hard to admit, I get it!<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #e09f8d;\"><strong>HONESTY, EMOTIONS, AND PAIN<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">What if you could look in the mirror and <strong>be painfully honest with yourself<\/strong> and <strong>finish this statement, &#8220;It&#8217;s My Turn To&#8230;&#8221;?<\/strong>\u00a0Can you imagine what would come up for you? Would it <strong>surprise you or perhaps upset you? <\/strong>How would you stand on<strong> achieving goals that mean a lot to you?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Instead, imagine using<strong> your emotions to fuel your idea of achieving goals<\/strong> that would mean the most to you. <strong>If your pain isn&#8217;t great enough, you may not have a sense of urgency.<\/strong> You can always get to it &#8220;later&#8221;. <strong>A year or two, or five, or ten pass<\/strong> and you&#8217;ve had no movement toward what you really want.<strong> <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #e09f8d;\"><strong>HOW MUCH PAIN WILL IT TAKE?<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>Most of all, do you want to wait for your pain to become unbearable before you are willing to take action?<\/strong>\u00a0How about allowing your timing to help you accomplish what you truly want? Get it done\u00a0<strong>before the pain of not trying catches up with you.\u00a0<\/strong>Sit with that thought for a moment. <strong>If you could avoid the pain from not trying, wouldn&#8217;t that be fabulous?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #5f97a5;\"><strong>THIS ISN&#8217;T EASY FOR ME<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #e09f8d;\"><strong>I WASN&#8217;T ALWAYS SUCCESSFUL<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">To be honest, it&#8217;s not easy for me to write about these topics either. <strong>I am shedding light on some of my own failures regarding achieving goals in the past.<\/strong> <strong>I waited far too long<\/strong> to go after what I wanted. <strong>Too scared<\/strong> to explore. The pain was far too great and lasted much longer than it had to. I&#8217;m pushing out of my comfort zone to illustrate how you can act much more quickly than I did. <strong>I don&#8217;t want you to suffer any longer than necessary.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #5f97a5;\"><strong>WHAT WILL IT TAKE FOR YOU TO START EXPLORING?<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #e09f8d;\"><strong>CAN YOU MAKE THE TIME?<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Either you decide to carve out some time for yourself to start exploring or you don&#8217;t. But, <strong>wouldn&#8217;t it be fantastic to start identifying what you want to achieve?<\/strong>\u00a0Is it your career, your life, your relationships, or your next chapter? <strong>The best thing you can do for yourself is to have a plan for &#8220;your next thing&#8221;<\/strong>. &#8220;Your Next Thing&#8221; <strong>can be anything you want it to be<\/strong>. Think something grand or something simple. This is your choice, it can be your plan, and it can be the thing that feels the most natural for you to pursue.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">What is your dream? <strong>Identify your &#8220;must do&#8221; &#8211; something just for you.<\/strong> So, <strong>when will it be &#8220;Your Turn&#8221;<\/strong>? Is that hard for you to accept? You are always able to put everyone else and their needs ahead of yours? At one point, I was operating by putting what I perceived to be everyone else&#8217;s needs ahead of my own. <strong>When I didn&#8217;t get the reaction I had anticipated, I then felt resentful.\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>[Tweet &#8220;What is your dream? What is your &#8220;must do&#8221; &#8211; something just for you?&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a class=\"pm-snzp-btn pm-snzp-btn-bigrounded pm-snzp-btn-medium pm-snzp-rosy\" href=\"http:\/\/www.yourideallifequiz.com\">How ready are you to say &#8220;It&#8217;s My Turn To&#8230;&#8221;?<\/a><\/p>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #e09f8d;\"><strong>I HAD TO THINK ABOUT WHAT I WAS DOING WRONG<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Since I feel the need to share my experience authentically<strong>, I had to examine the choices I made and the action I was taking<\/strong>. I was wasting a lot of energy with no return on that investment. It not only wasn&#8217;t bringing me further along personally, but I wasn&#8217;t enhancing anyone else&#8217;s happiness the way I thought. My feelings included<strong>\u00a0feeling empty and exhausted.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<h4><\/h4>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #e09f8d;\"><strong>MY ADVICE FOR MOVING FORWARD<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">What can I tell you about how to move forward? I think it&#8217;s all about you\u00a0<strong>creating an environment in which you can take inspired action<\/strong>.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">There is a difference between simply taking action and taking inspired action. <strong>Taking action gives you momentum,<\/strong> but it doesn&#8217;t always lead you in the direction you want or need to go. However, <strong>when you take inspired action, you are taking action that is inspired by achieving what you truly want<\/strong>. You know that by taking that particular action <strong>you are moving closer to your dreams.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>Actually, it&#8217;s not as easy as it sounds.<\/strong> You are used to moving forward and taking action in your daily life.<strong> Taking inspired action means you know what you want and how to move toward it.<\/strong>\u00a0Achieving goals can also make you feel scared and uncomfortable. <strong>Anything you do that helps you achieve change in your life can be scary<\/strong>. Acknowledge the fact that you will feel uncomfortable and use it to propel you forward.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #5f97a5;\"><strong>TAKING INSPIRED ACTION TOWARD ACHIEVING GOALS<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>So, what can taking inspired action mean for you?<\/strong> When you move in that direction, you can feel:<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">More motivated<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">You are moving toward something important<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">More aligned energetically with what you are going after<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">More meaning in your efforts<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>Finally, what is necessary for you to create an environment that is conducive to making meaningful change?<\/strong> I happen to have six steps that I can share with you!<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #5f97a5;\"><strong><span color=\"#000000\">SIX STEPS TO CREATING AN ENVIRONMENT FOR ACHIEVING GOALS<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>Know what you want<\/strong> &#8211; Without this element, you are simply &#8220;doing&#8221;. How often have you gone through a day, simply &#8220;doing&#8221;, and never getting closer to a feeling of truly accomplishing something that is very important for your well-being.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>Create your visual picture<\/strong> &#8211; It&#8217;s important to have a visual representation of your future with what you want already in it. It can be a Pinterest board, a vision board with magazine photos, or even an album of photos and quotes on your smart phone.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>Set your intention<\/strong> &#8211; It is necessary to decide how you will show up in your life to get what you want. Determine not only your &#8220;what&#8221;, but work on your &#8220;why&#8221;. Enter this phase of your life with intention.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>Share your vision and intention<\/strong>\u00a0<strong>for achieving goals<\/strong> &#8211; Those who care about you the most will want to do anything to help you. But, they can&#8217;t help unless they know what you want. Share as much as your are comfortable sharing and then think about sharing a little bit more. The more they know about how they can play a role in your success, the more they will be inclined to do to help.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>Commit to stay focused<\/strong> &#8211; You don&#8217;t get things done that are the most important to you because you allow everything else to get in the way. Excuses become your enemy and a commitment to stay focused on the prize will help you a great deal.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>Find others who can help you<\/strong> &#8211; Outside of your friends and family, there is an unknown universe of people who can help you. Research who they are and where you can gain access to them. You&#8217;ll be able to determine if they may be a good fit for the future. They can be a mentor, business person, or a strong role model who has already achieved what you truly want.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<h4><\/h4>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #e09f8d;\"><strong>HOW READY ARE YOU?<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">So, <strong>how ready are you to be committed to your &#8220;It&#8217;s My Turn To&#8230;&#8221; statement?<\/strong> Create a combination of <strong>mindset, commitment, and vision for yourself<\/strong>. If you want to get a sense of where you are on these dimensions, <strong>feel free to take my free quiz<\/strong>. It will <strong>only take you a few minutes<\/strong> and will give you some great insights that can help position you to move forward. <strong>You can access the quiz by clicking on the button below.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a class=\"pm-snzp-btn pm-snzp-btn-bigrounded pm-snzp-btn-medium pm-snzp-rosy\" href=\"http:\/\/www.yourideallifequiz.com\"><i class=\"pm-snazzy-heart-empty\"><\/i>How ready are you to say &#8220;It&#8217;s My Turn To&#8230;&#8221;?<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/designyoursuccess.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/HEADSHOT-WITH-BOOK-COVER.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"256\" height=\"256\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-1361\" srcset=\"https:\/\/staging-ucs.com\/tina\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/HEADSHOT-WITH-BOOK-COVER.jpg 504w, https:\/\/staging-ucs.com\/tina\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/HEADSHOT-WITH-BOOK-COVER-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/staging-ucs.com\/tina\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/HEADSHOT-WITH-BOOK-COVER-300x300.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 256px) 100vw, 256px\" \/>I&#8217;m Tina Meilleur and a Leadership and Business Mentor, author and speaker. You can learn more a<\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">bout my story\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/designyoursuccess.com\/meet-tina\/\">here<\/a>. I am also the founder of <strong>Design Your Success<\/strong> and the <strong>Academy for Business Success<\/strong>. My mission is helping high achievers match their desires, skills and experiences with success on their terms.\u00a0My \u201cIt&#8217;s My Turn\u201d program and CRAVE\u2122 process are systematic approaches for making simple \u201ctweaks\u201d or orchestrating a total reinvention. I am the author of <em>Your Next Chapter: Five Steps to Creating the Life of Your Dreams<\/em> to help\u00a0others build anything they want into their life.\u00a0I have a CPA designation in the State of Louisiana and received my MBA from Tulane University in their Executive MBA program. I&#8217;m a highly sought-after mentor, life coach, female CEO facilitator, business strategist\/coach, an<\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">d speaker. You can reach out to me at <strong>Tina@DesignYourSuccess.com.\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>WHAT IF YOU FINISHED THIS SENTENCE: IT&#8217;S MY TURN TO&#8230; &nbsp; and you really started to achieve your goals? Achieving goals can feel elusive, particularly if they feel really personal to you. 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