{"id":2499,"date":"2018-08-06T11:44:00","date_gmt":"2018-08-06T16:44:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging-ucs.com\/tina\/?p=2499"},"modified":"2018-08-09T06:09:23","modified_gmt":"2018-08-09T11:09:23","slug":"the-right-community","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging-ucs.com\/tina\/the-right-community\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Tips for Finding the Right Community for You"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/staging-ucs.com\/tina\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/bigstock-165701489-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"Finding Connection\" width=\"520\" height=\"347\" class=\"aligncenter  wp-image-1912\" srcset=\"https:\/\/staging-ucs.com\/tina\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/bigstock-165701489-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/staging-ucs.com\/tina\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/bigstock-165701489-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/staging-ucs.com\/tina\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/bigstock-165701489-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/staging-ucs.com\/tina\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/bigstock-165701489-1080x720.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 520px) 100vw, 520px\" \/><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #5f97a5;\"><strong>FINDING THE RIGHT COMMUNITY &#8211; WHAT DOES IT TAKE?<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Finding the right community for you should be easy, right? Wait a sec &#8211; not so fast! You can have your friends and your family, but do they really &#8220;get&#8221; you? I mean, do they get the &#8220;you&#8221; that you have become? The one who has the current challenges associated with your stage in life, your circumstances, your new business venture, or even your desire to figure out what you want to do next? Maybe not&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">That&#8217;s what I mean by finding the right &#8220;community&#8221;. In the context of community as I am describing, it is the gathering of like-minded individuals who share the same concerns, experiences, uncertainty, desire to help each other, and who are generally looking to feel less alone in their individual quest.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">This is such an important concept, I felt compelled to write about it. My involvement in different &#8220;communities&#8221; &#8211; some in-person, others online &#8211; overall have been very positive, but it is hard to find the right one to meet your needs at any given time.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #5f97a5;\"><strong>WHEN SHOULD YOU SEEK OUT A COMMUNITY?<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">I hate to say it, but you&#8217;ll know! Something in your life has changed or is about to change. You feel as if you have less in common with your current friends or family members. Do you feel misunderstood, or worse yet, dismissed when you try to articulate what you are going through? Are you dying to undertake a new chapter in your life, but don&#8217;t know where to start OR are you scared to death to try?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">A community of like-minded individuals can really help you navigate both your situation and your feelings and can stick with you as you ride the waves of emotions associated with life or business changes.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #5f97a5;\"><strong>5 TIPS FOR FINDING THE RIGHT COMMUNITY<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>\u00a01.\u00a0<\/strong><em><strong>Focus on what you need<\/strong><\/em> &#8211; <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Think about where you are in your life or business and what type of support you might need. This becomes the operative question you can ask yourself to find the right community, &#8220;What is my biggest challenge right now?&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><em><strong>2. Be prepared to clearly state your goals for participation<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0&#8211;<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">When you ask for what you need, your needs are more likely to be met. AND, you will be able to check you are in the right place.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><em><strong>3. Find a group leader or administrator that is a good fit for you &#8211;<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">The leader of the group is someone that will be directing the community to a degree, so it is important to select a community in which the tone and personality of the leader resonates with you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><em><strong>4. Determine how much you wish to share and how &#8211;\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">You can be an introvert in a community, but you will get the best results when you learn to trust and share. Take your time to participate on your terms, but don&#8217;t be shy!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><em><strong>5. Check around for recommendations or follow groups to see what they are about &#8211;\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Test the waters to see how things are handled in certain groups online or ask for recommendations for local groups or communities. These are your best sources of finding a fit.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">I&#8217;m always interested in being of service to those in my community. My community includes mostly career women, women business owners, or women who are interested in figuring out &#8220;what&#8217;s next&#8221; in their personal or professional life. We are energized, supportive, motivated, respectful and we share our biggest challenges in a place where no one feels left behind.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">So, I&#8217;d love to hear from you! Comment below and let me know the answer to this question:<\/span><\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #5f97a5;\"><strong>What is your biggest challenge right now?<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">If you are interested in staying in touch with me and the rest of my community, click the button below to take a quick survey. I want to know more about what you need and where you are so I can provide content and support for you and the other women in my community.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a class=\"pm-snzp-btn pm-snzp-btn-bigrounded pm-snzp-btn-medium pm-snzp-blue\" href=\"https:\/\/uy197.infusionsoft.com\/app\/form\/survey-seg\" type=\"big\">CLICK HERE TO TAKE THE SURVEY<\/a><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/staging-ucs.com\/tina\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/April-2017-Headshot-small-2-746x1024.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"176\" height=\"242\" class=\"wp-image-2517  alignleft\" srcset=\"https:\/\/staging-ucs.com\/tina\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/April-2017-Headshot-small-2-746x1024.png 746w, https:\/\/staging-ucs.com\/tina\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/April-2017-Headshot-small-2-219x300.png 219w, https:\/\/staging-ucs.com\/tina\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/April-2017-Headshot-small-2-768x1054.png 768w, https:\/\/staging-ucs.com\/tina\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/April-2017-Headshot-small-2-300x412.png 300w, https:\/\/staging-ucs.com\/tina\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/April-2017-Headshot-small-2.png 900w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 176px) 100vw, 176px\" \/><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Hi! I&#8217;m Tina Meilleur, an Executive Coach, Business Advisor, author and speaker. My mission is to help women uncover and connect with what they crave in their life or career AND help surround them with support from me and my community!\u00a0 According to my clients, my coaching<b><i>\u00a0<\/i><\/b>programs and CRAVE\u2122 process provide gateways for making simple \u201ctweaks\u201d or a total up-level of your life or business. I am also the founder of\u00a0<strong>Design Your Success<\/strong>, the online\u00a0<strong>Academy for Business Success <\/strong>and\u00a0the author of\u00a0<em>Your Next Chapter: Five Steps to Creating the Life of Your Dreams<\/em>\u00a0to help\u00a0you create your own kick-ass future. I have a CPA designation in the State of Louisiana and received my MBA from Tulane University in their Executive MBA program. I&#8217;m a highly sought-after coach, facilitator of female CEO round-tables, business strategist, and speaker. You can learn more about my story\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/designyoursuccess.com\/meet-tina\/\" style=\"color: #000000;\">here, or reach<\/a>\u00a0out to me at\u00a0<strong>Tina@DesignYourSuccess.com.\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>FINDING THE RIGHT COMMUNITY &#8211; WHAT DOES IT TAKE? Finding the right community for you should be easy, right? Wait a sec &#8211; not so fast! You can have your friends and your family, but do they really &#8220;get&#8221; you? I mean, do they get the &#8220;you&#8221; that you have become? 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